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Commonly Asked Questions

 
 
You've got questions. We’ve got answers. No fluff, no mystery—here's what Freemasonry is, how it works, and why it might (or might not) be for you.

 

🛠️ So, What Is Freemasonry?

1. What is Freemasonry in the simplest terms?

Freemasonry is a brotherhood built on self-improvement, real friendships, and doing good in the world. It’s not a secret society, a religion, or a club—it’s a fraternity of men who push each other to be better, think deeper, and live with purpose.

2. What does Freemasonry teach?

It teaches three simple things:

1. How to be a good man
2. How to serve others
3. How to live a meaningful life. We use symbols, traditions, and lessons to drive that home, but at its core, it's about growth, character, and accountability.

3. How has Freemasonry changed people’s lives?

Ask any Brother, and you’ll hear stories about becoming a better husband, a better father, a better leader. Some men found lifelong friendships. Some found direction. Some found a better way to serve in their communities. Every man’s journey is different, but Freemasonry has a credible way of sharpening men into their best selves.

🕰️ Where Did Freemasonry Come From?

4. How did Freemasonry start?

Short version: It evolved from medieval stonemasons’ guilds, where skilled builders passed down their knowledge through apprenticeships and secret lessons. Over time, the fraternity became less about literal building and more about building stronger men of character and their communities.

5. When did Freemasonry come to America?

The first official Grand Lodge was constituted in Boston in 1733. From there, it spread fast—many of the Founding Fathers were Masons. Freemasonry helped shape the U.S. in ways most people don’t even realize.

6. Where is Freemasonry most popular today?

It’s worldwide—millions of men across North America, Europe, the Caribbean, Africa, and beyond. In some countries Freemasonry is less visible but Masonry is still very much alive.

🚪 How Do You Join?

7. How do I become a Freemason?

Membership is by invitation only, but the first step is simple: Click "Ask A Mason" above, and share your contact information to ask your specific questions.

Step-by-Step: 

1️⃣ Ask Your Questions - Submit your information so that we can answer  your questions.

2️⃣ Visit a Lodge – After your call, an Ambassador will help you get connected with a lodge.
3️⃣ Meet the Brothers – They’ll want to know who you are and what you're looking for.
4️⃣ Apply for the Degrees – If it’s a good fit, ask the Brothers for an application, they'll help you through the process.
5️⃣ Begin Your Journey – If accepted, you’ll begin the Degrees and start the process of becoming a Mason.

8. What are the requirements?

- You must be a man.
- You must be over the age of 18
- You must believe in a higher power
- You must be a man of good character.
- You must be willing to learn, grow, and contribute.

9. What if I don’t know any Freemasons?

No problem. That’s why this site exists. Reach out. Let’s talk.

⛪ Freemasonry & Religion: What's the Deal?

10. Why did the Pope ban Freemasonry? (And does that even matter?)

Many centuries ago, the Catholic Church didn’t like the fact that Masons welcomed men from all faiths. Some leaders thought Freemasonry was too independent, or even too mysterious. Here’s the truth: Freemasonry is not a religion.
It doesn’t replace faith—it encourages it. Plenty of Christians, Jews, Muslims, and men of other faiths are Masons. If you’re worried about religious conflicts, talk to a Brother in your faith and get their perspective.

11. Can I be a Christian (or Muslim, or Jewish, etc.) and still be a Freemason?

Absolutely. You just have to believe in God—what you call Him and how you worship is your personal choice.

🔍 Symbolism & Learning More


12. What’s up with all the symbols?

Freemasonry teaches lessons using symbols and lectures—things like:

🔹 The Square & Compasses – Living with integrity and honesty

🔹 The Apron – A reminder to do the right thing and stay humble

🔹 The Pillars – Strength, wisdom, and beauty in life

🔹 The Compasses – Self-Control, and Self-Discipline

It's how Masons teach lessons in character building to men of different perspectives and faith backgrounds without leaning into one religion or another.

13. Is Freemasonry for Dummies a good book to start with?

Yep. It’s one of the better introductions out there—clear, simple, and packed with useful insights. If you’re serious about learning, grab a copy on Amazon Kindle.

⛔How Can I Avoid Scams When Looking to Join Freemasonry?

14. Is Freemasonry free to join?

No. Freemasonry is not free, but it also does not solicit membership through online payments or random messages. A genuine Lodge will never ask you to send money upfront through Cashapp, Whatsapp, wire transfers, or unverified websites. If someone is demanding money before meeting you or explaining the process, it’s a red flag.

15. How do Freemasons find new members?

Freemasonry does not recruit in the traditional sense. Instead, we wait for good men to express interest. A real Lodge will invite you to meet members in person, attend events, and get your questions answered before any membership steps begin. No real lodge will pressure you into joining or paying upfront.

16. I received a message from someone claiming to be a high-ranking Mason offering membership for a fee. Is this real?

No. That is a scam. Legitimate Freemasonry does not sell instant membership, nor does it grant rank or titles in exchange for money. If someone claims you can "buy" your way in or receive special treatment for a payment, ignore them.

17. How do I verify if a lodge is legitimate?

To ensure you're contacting a real Lodge:
Visit the official website of the Grand Lodge in your state or country.
Ask for a physical location—real lodges meet in established buildings, not just online.
Speak with real members—you should have opportunities to meet members in person before ever paying a fee.

18. What should I do if I think someone is scamming me?
  • Do not send money to anyone claiming to offer membership online.
  • Report suspicious messages to your local Grand Lodge.
  • Verify information by reaching out to a recognized Grand Lodge directly.
19. How do I safely start the process of joining?

The safest way to begin your Masonic journey is to speak directly with a verified lodge in your area. The process is simple.

Remember: If it feels like a scam, it probably is.

Freemasonry is about personal growth and brotherhood—never about quick transactions or secret shortcuts.